You are a Manifestor, but are You a MASTER Manifestor?
By: Tonja Waring, America’s Leading Manifesting Coach & bestselling author of The Power of Manifesting
Several years ago, I was struggling. The economy was crashing, and I was in the thick of it. I had my real estate license and over 50 listings in two states. The market was headed in a downward spiral. My intention of earning $300,000 in commissions that year was quickly becoming a wish to make at least $50,000 just so I could keep my home and survive. I wasn’t that lucky.
After bankruptcy, foreclosure and divorce, I found myself wanting something greater…to learn how to master manifesting. As a certified feng shui practitioner, I knew the power of thoughts, physical placement, prayer and visualization. The problem was, sometimes it worked for me and sometimes, it didn’t. I was all over the place.
We are born natural manifestors.
The truth is, we all are born manifestors. Look at any child or teenager and you will see that more times than not, they get exactly what they want. They don’t think of the reasons they can’t have something, they think of all the reasons they should have something, and they aren’t afraid to tell you why and do what it takes to get it. They make up reasons out of thin air; they can be so creative! And persistent.
We can learn a lot from kids.
Here are 3 of My Favorite Ideas to Become a Master Manifestor.
1. When You Manifest What You Want, Stop Referring to It as “Unbelievable”, “Crazy”, “Weird” or “A Miracle.”
I hear this all the time. Friends will get exactly what they set out to get, and then they say something like, “Wow, it was unbelievable!” No, it wasn’t. Believe it! It’s natural. It’s normal.
I actually had my friend tell me she and her daughter saw a contest and wanted to win an iPad. They visualized it, and then their name was picked in the drawing! “It was so weird,” she told me. What? Why is that weird? It’s natural. It’s normal.
Telling yourself that this is not common, or it doesn’t ever happen, is programming your cells to be oblivious to all the manifesting you really do. Even if society sees manifesting as abnormal, you don’t have to. Manifesting is normal. And, manifesting can become your new normal. They more you do it consciously, the more you will see how much you do manifest and be able to manifest on demand with greater accuracy.
2. Manifest What You Want Like It Is a Game.
Taking life too seriously can greatly lower our ability to have fun and experience joy which lowers our vibration. For many of us, if we don’t instantly get what we want, we get bummed out. The higher our vibration (emotional wellbeing) the better we are at attracting what we desire. The reality is that you have everything you need right now, so anything you manifest is gravy.
Play this game instead: Dream up your ideal life. What would you do if you had everything you ever wanted? Then, start playing a game (pretending) as though you live that life. Think of what you want most. Visualize that happening. Write about it, have fun with it. Start doing things like that. See yourself receiving great things.
Make manifesting a game. For example, decide that you are going to manifest a $5-dollar bill within 24 hours. It’s just a game. Play and see if you can do it. Or maybe you want to manifest a movie ticket. Whatever, it is, just put it out there and start to play the game. See what skills/mindset you need to develop to be able to manifest it.
3. Study Manifesting and Practice Manifesting… Consistently.
People want to know how I’ve become a master manifestor. I practice a lot and I practice consistently. If you want to lose weight and gain muscle, you won’t do that by reading recipes and learning about exercises. That may be a part of it, but nothing really happens until you eat healthily and go to the gym. And, nothing really happens if you eat healthily and go to the gym once or twice. You have to eat healthily and go to the gym consistently…ideally, for the rest of your life.
I hear people say, “I’m going to get in shape.” Well, they get in shape, and then they fall out of shape, and then they get in shape again and fall out of shape. What would happen if your mindset was to stay in shape? “I’m going to stay in shape,” you tell yourself. You begin to manifest that and the yo-yo’ing stops.
Becoming a master manifestor is like that. Start with, “I am a master manifestor.” You study manifesting. You practice manifesting. And, it becomes a part of your daily life and mindset. You look for and acknowledge all the successes you’ve had in manifesting. You continually practice meditation and visualization. You consistently ask yourself, “What is it that I truly want?” You have fun, you play games, you laugh. You dream about an awesome and amazing life. You write about it. You will see how quickly your ideal life comes into reality. No attachment. Simply allowing yourself to have what you desire. And, like finding people to go to the gym, you find people who want to master manifesting so you can play together and learn from each other.
About the Author:
Tonja Waring is America’s Leading Manifesting Coach and bestselling author of The Power of Manifesting. An entrepreneur at heart, Tonja has created multiple successful businesses throughout her career. The foundation of her teachings is The Manifesting ProcessTM, a step-by-step framework for creating anything you desire in business and life. Her mission is to align people with their strongest assets, their passion and purpose, to create a life they love and are excited about.
As a single mom of three young children, Tonja was instrumental in the astounding transformation of a small pillow company into a national brand. In the first two years she worked with MyPillow®, they grew from $500,000 to $50 million. She co-authored one of the most profitable newspaper ads ever written, appeared as host in their national infomercial, has been a guest on QVC over 30 times and appeared on The Shopping Channel in Toronto, Ontario, Canada.
Weekly, she hosts The Manifesting Mastermind where people around the country come together to master the art and science of manifesting. (www.TheManifestingMastermind.com)